Confidence is a skill which anyone can learn. The reason why these people are confident and you are not is that they have "learnt" their confidence from an early age - and they have encountered positive responses to their behavior and efforts (perhaps they have been praised or rewarded for outgoing behaviorin some way) so they kept growing in confidence. You didn't receive such a positive response, but instead were laughed at even, or perhaps you were criticised when you made efforts to be more outgoing, so instead of growing more confident you entered a negative spiral and became more introverted. Confidence is all in your mind - i.e. in the way you think and act, and importantly your self beliefs and beliefs about what you are and aren't capable of. Once you change these patterns of thinking within your mind and change your self beliefs then you too will become more self confident. How To Do This: This is where subliminal messages come in! Subliminals will can gain access to your mind naturally and make changes to these negative self beliefs. Steadily they will replace them with positive beliefs and plant powerful seeds of confidence within your mind - basically to stop you thinking in the way that you do and help you to instill the types of personality traits shared by the confident types of people that people you look up to. Imagine what it would feel like to not feel the fear and nerves when in social situations, to have the confidence to pursue the success you deserve BegConfidence is a skill which anyone can learn. The reason why these people are confident and you are not is that they have "learnt" their confidence from an early age - and they have encountered positive responses to their behavior and efforts (perhaps they have been praised or rewarded for outgoing behaviorin some way) so they kept growing in confidence. You didn't receive such a positive response, but instead were laughed at even, or perhaps you were criticised when you made efforts to be more outgoing, so instead of growing more confident you entered a negative spiral and became more introverted. Confidence is all in your mind - i.e. in the way you think and act, and importantly your self beliefs and beliefs about what you are and aren't capable of. Once you change these patterns of thinking within your mind and change your self beliefs then you too will become more self confident. How To Do This: Subliminals can gain access to your mind naturally and make changes to these negative self beliefs. Steadily they will replace them with positive beliefs and plant powerful seeds of confidence within your mind - basically to stop you thinking in the way that you do and help you to instill the types of personality traits shared by the confident types of people that people you look up to. Imagine what it would feel like to not feel the fear and nerves when in social situations, to have the confidence to pursue the success you deserve.